Tuesday, March 1, 2016

The Myth Of The Right One

The world creates this “the One” exaggerations. Movies, musicals, celebrities all promote this myth. Everyone seems to have found “The One,” and it only took a second but are they real? Or is there something wrong with us? When we meet our soulmate, will we just know?

Hold up everyone. You all should know the truth, "the One” does not and has never existed unless you're thinking God (then my friend, you're right).

Don’t give up just yet, “The One” may not exist, but love does! If you can find that person who will stick by you no matter what! believe me you have found " the one". Leave that love story that evokes some uncontrollable emotion that takes over and you spend the rest of your life singing to Disney. The most important thing to keep in mind is that Love does exists. And it isn't just  mere feelings, it is a conscious choice.

Whenever you do make the choice to love and marry someone, they become “The One.” Every day, no matter what, you will have to make the choice to love and honor that person. And every day, love will grow as it becomes less about the fairytale and more about your love journey together.

Stop focusing on finding “The One” and start focusing on being the best You, you are made to be. Don't ever settle out of of fear of missising out but make sure that any life long decision is in fact the right one. Don't ever allow pressure from you significant other, family, friends and society to make you fall for this lie because the repercussions is usually bitter (ask all the divorced or embittered couples who thought they meet "the one" only to be disappointed).

I normally don't write on this type of topics but after years of pressure and almost making the wrong decisions, I finally took control of my love life from everyone else and I haven't regretted it since. Do have an amazing week and Happy New Month to you all.

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