Friday, November 8, 2013

Inspirational Poem A Friend Sent To Me When I Needed It Badly

“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.”

“Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.”

“Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.”

“If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think ‘it will get better.’ You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.”

“Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?”

“Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.”

“You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.”

“He is a man; nothing more, nothing less.”

“Never let a man define who you are.”

“Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.”

“A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.”

“All men are NOT dogs.”

“You should not be the one doing all the bending–compromise is a two-way street.”

“If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t ‘be friends.’ A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.”

“The only person you can control in a relationship is you.”

“Always have your own set of friends separate from  his”

“Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.”

“Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or a better job.”

“Do not make him into a quasi-god.”

"Lastly, Ladies get a job and don't depend on a man to survive"

Hope it helps someone like it helped me


  1. Thx babe for sharing<3


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  3. Great post! Thanks for sharing :) They really made me smile. I'm gonna print it out and put it on the corkboard in my room.

  4. “Never let a man define who you are" - I think this happens quite a lot...

  5. I agree with everything!! You are totally right!!! I should let my sis read this but she just won't listen to anyone. Have a fabulous weekend <3

    xx Mira

  6. Such beautiful words, definitely very, very inspiring & I definitely agree with everything that you said in this post!

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  8. i'm in love with this! great post x

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  9. nice poem by your friend! very inspiring :)